{"id":9710,"date":"2010-06-13T15:15:20","date_gmt":"2010-06-13T19:15:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/?p=9710"},"modified":"2010-06-13T15:15:20","modified_gmt":"2010-06-13T19:15:20","slug":"i-watched-him-die","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/?p=9710","title":{"rendered":"I Watched Him Die"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This is not a poem but a reflection.<br \/>\nI don&#8217;t know if anyone has experienced this.<br \/>\nI pray no one really ever has to.<br \/>\nI saw the breath of life leave my dad.<br \/>\nMy dad had always been a hard worker all his life<br \/>\nHe worked two or three jobs all his life<br \/>\nHe also always found the time to help others<br \/>\nHe was a giver and not taker<br \/>\nHe had a massive heart attack at age 79<br \/>\nonly a few weeks before his 80 birthday<br \/>\nHe was taken to a hospital only a few<br \/>\nminutes from where I worked<br \/>\nHe was put into a coma so he would not<br \/>\nremove life support<br \/>\nEach time I went to see him all I could do<br \/>\nwas talk to him with no response<br \/>\nAt the end of the week I went to<br \/>\nintensive care to see him<br \/>\nWhen I entered the nurse said<br \/>\nwe took him off support<br \/>\nWhich I thought was good<br \/>\nIn the next breath she said<br \/>\nHe has about 1\/2 hour to live<br \/>\nYou can imagine all the thoughts<br \/>\nthat went through my mind as I<br \/>\nsat there seeing his breathing lessen<br \/>\nand his blood pressure dropping<br \/>\nHis pastor was there also and said<br \/>\nthat my dad asked that the 23 rd Psalm<br \/>\nbe red and after the last verse<br \/>\nHe stopped breathing<br \/>\nThe feelings that he would not have had<br \/>\nany family with him at death and I was<br \/>\nable to be there gave me some comfort<br \/>\nand I hope him also<br \/>\ndad is gone and my heart hurts<br \/>\nbut I am glad I was able to be with him at death<\/p>\n<p>I saw a TV show tonight where a woman had to decide<br \/>\nto have her mom taken off life support and stay till<br \/>\nshe died.-Needless to say what that did to me<br \/>\nMade me write this<\/p>\n<p>God Bless you Dad<\/p>\n<p> BY RGAI<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is not a poem but a reflection. I don&#8217;t know if anyone has experienced this. I pray no one really ever has to. I saw the breath of life&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/?p=9710\">Read More<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">I Watched Him Die<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9710"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9710"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9710\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9710"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9710"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9710"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}