{"id":10556,"date":"2017-05-21T21:08:58","date_gmt":"2017-05-22T01:08:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/?p=10556"},"modified":"2017-05-21T21:08:58","modified_gmt":"2017-05-22T01:08:58","slug":"dont-make-life-so-hard-repost","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/?p=10556","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t Make Life So Hard (REPOST)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever heard go with the flow<br \/>\nI am sure you have<br \/>\nSo many people try to change things that can&#8217;t be changed<br \/>\nJust like trying to swim up a waterfall<br \/>\nUnless you are superman or person(to not be sexist)<br \/>\nWhich very few of us are, it is impossible<br \/>\nWhy is everyone so accepting of each other<br \/>\nBefore they are married and after they marry<br \/>\nThey think, oh now it is time to try to get them to change<br \/>\nI am not saying that there are things that people can&#8217;t do<br \/>\nTo help people to change in some areas of their lives<br \/>\nFor instance, if your partner has low self esteem<br \/>\nYou can help them by encouraging them when they try something new<br \/>\nHowever, if you get upset with them when they won&#8217;t try<br \/>\nThen you have to try another way<br \/>\nBut when a person who has low self esteem<br \/>\nConstantly tries to tear you down and everyone around<br \/>\nThen you have to stand up for yourself and tell them<br \/>\nIf the person you love cannot give you back the love you need<br \/>\nYou either need to accept it and accept them but still help them<br \/>\nOr you need to move on, I know that this is very easy to say<br \/>\nBut very hard to do, BELIEVE ME!!!!<br \/>\nEach one of us has to take care of yourself FIRST<br \/>\nIt sounds selfish but, if you don&#8217;t it just will wear you down to nothing<br \/>\nI have gone through almost three years of constant upheaval<br \/>\nI have set plans in motion behind the scenes<br \/>\nBecause I knew I would not ge co-operation to simplify things<br \/>\nAnd to make a better future for everyone<br \/>\nEverytime when it looked like things would fall apart<br \/>\nSomething happened, usually at the last moment<br \/>\nBut, I tried to keep my faith strong<br \/>\nI attribute that something to GOD<br \/>\nGod kept me from commiting suicide, three time in three days<br \/>\nGod brought a child into my life which took four years<br \/>\nAnd God has brought me back from financial disaster twice<br \/>\nSo anyone out there who say&#8217;s God does not help<br \/>\nI am living proof HE DOES<br \/>\nSo stop trying to make your life so hard<br \/>\nGO WITH THE FLOW<br \/>\nAnd ASK GOD TO HELP&#8212;&#8211;HE WILL!!!!!<\/p>\n<p> By ronald gainsford<\/p>\n<p>\u00a9 2000 Ronald Gainsford<\/p>\n<p> BY RGAI<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever heard go with the flow I am sure you have So many people try to change things that can&#8217;t be changed Just like trying to swim up&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/?p=10556\">Read More<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Don&#8217;t Make Life So Hard (REPOST)<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10556"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10556"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10556\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10556"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10556"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rongainsford.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10556"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}