Have you ever heard go with the flow
I am sure you have
So many people try to change things that can’t be changed
Just like trying to swim up a waterfall
Unless you are superman or person(to not be sexist)
Which very few of us are, it is impossible
Why is everyone so accepting of each other
Before they are married and after they marry
They think, oh now it is time to try to get them to change
I am not saying that there are things that people can’t do
To help people to change in some areas of their lives
For instance, if your partner has low self esteem
You can help them by encouraging them when they try something new
However, if you get upset with them when they won’t try
Then you have to try another way
But when a person who has low self esteem
Constantly tries to tear you down and everyone around
Then you have to stand up for yourself and tell them
If the person you love cannot give you back the love you need
You either need to accept it and accept them but still help them
Or you need to move on, I know that this is very easy to say
But very hard to do, BELIEVE ME!!!!
Each one of us has to take care of yourself FIRST
It sounds selfish but, if you don’t it just will wear you down to nothing
I have gone through almost three years of constant upheaval
I have set plans in motion behind the scenes
Because I knew I would not ge co-operation to simplify things
And to make a better future for everyone
Everytime when it looked like things would fall apart
Something happened, usually at the last moment
But, I tried to keep my faith strong
I attribute that something to GOD
God kept me from commiting suicide, three time in three days
God brought a child into my life which took four years
And God has brought me back from financial disaster twice
So anyone out there who say’s God does not help
I am living proof HE DOES
So stop trying to make your life so hard
GO WITH THE FLOW
And ASK GOD TO HELP—–HE WILL!!!!!
By ronald gainsford
© 2000 Ronald Gainsford
BY RGAI
